sometimes..having your monthly gift is a blessing...

Just got this message... and i couldnt help but pass it along... most women need to be aware of the adverse side effects of these new pills in the market.. please feel free to express your opinion on the matter...

Dear Friend,

I’m sending this to all because of the sensitive nature of it. Guys, PLEASE forward to your sisters, mothers, girlfriends and in actual fact,all the ladies listed in your address book. You never know,you may save someone.

MENSTRUAL CYCLE..... PASS THIS ON EVEN IF YOU DO NOT USE IT
Recently this past week, a 31-year-old newly graduated student, with a doctoral degree about to start her new career as a Doctor, was flown into a nearby hospital, because she passed out. They found a blood clot in her neck, and immediately took her by helicopter to the ER to operate by the time they removed the right half of her skull to relieve the pressure on her brain, the clot had spread to her brain causing severe damage.. Since last Wednesday night, she was battling.. they induced her into a coma to stop the blood flow, They operated 3 times.. Finally, they said there was nothing left that they could do. They found multiple clots in the left side of her brain. The swelling wouldn't stop, and she was on life support. She died at 4:30 yesterday.
She leaves behind a husband and a 2yr old Brandon and a 4yr old Justin... The CAUSE of DEATH - they found was a birth control pill she was taking that allows you to only have your period 3 times a year... They said it interrupts life's menstrual cycle, and although it is FDA approved... shouldn't be - So to the
women in my address book - I ask you to deal with your period once a month - so you can live the rest of the months that your life has in store for you. Please send this to every woman you know - you may save someone's life....
Remember, you have a CYCLE for a reason!

Fyi.
The name of this new birth control pill is Lybrel. If you go to Lybrel.com http://www.lybrel.com/ you will find at least 26 pages of information regarding this drug.
The second birth control pill is, Seasonique. If you go to the website Seasonique.com http://www.seasonique.com/ you will find 43 pages of information regarding this drug. The warnings and side effects regarding both pills are horrible.
Please, please forward this information to as many daughters AND sons,co-workers, friends and relatives. Several lives have already been changed

its been a while...but i'm not coming back..

hmm... this summer has been very eventful i must say...what haven't i encountered??!! stupid group mates in school,endless projects,partying,getting my frnds drunk,montreal,the beach,break up,sad times..blogging... infact the list is endless...
i know i have no justification for being MIA.. but so much has happened.. and i shall cram all into one post...well.. i'ld try...where do i even start from? ok.. if i can't fit all in one post i'ld break them all accordingly... see i wanted to save you guys the random blog post..and give you guys real jist instead...so i might as well keep quiet until i have something abi??
ok so y'all rmbr a very sad period i went through abi? the break up? well.. i'm glad to say im quite over it,.. it seems wierd cuz months ago.. i felt like shit...but now i feel better honestly...ok so i know the break up was real bad .. but the ex and i are pretty much on talking terms now..we spoke about everything and how it happened,why i broke up with him cuz i felt he was just being a small boy and cannot handle the reponsibilities that comes with dating.He was honestly the first guy from my age group i've ever dated..and now i realise it was quite unfair to compare him to my previous relationships because i was his first gf and he was absolutely clueless on what to do...sometimes love isnt just enough... a guy can love you.. but its not enough to make a relationship last.Enough deep talks have passed through us.. i admit i was quite jealous of his new girl...but now im just calm about it..he talks to me that they are unofficial and he doesn't know.. i tell him to give it a try... u can never have what we had together with her but u might at least try..you need to go out there and experience other relationships to fully understand why i let you go even when it hurt..and why i'm not coming back...He goes on and say how i ignored him at the beach...i tell him i was sick and cranky cuz my eyes got swollen on alabukun..he comments how sexy i looked in the bikini.. and i blush..i'm like its cool dude.. i hold no grudge against u.. i have a man now i absolutely care about.. he is all i can ask for in a man right now.. and i hope thats how your gf is to you.he replies confused and uncertain.."ühhh i dnt think so.."
"newaiz...me and the crew are hanging out on saturday..go karting and then a movie at my place..feel free to come over" he replies "sure ild make it.. my sis's bridal shower is that day.. but ild come over"
that day comes... im frazzeled as shit maen... dats bcos i have like 10 people in my house... somehow the news spread that i was hosting.. and lets say people love my cooking and decided to show up... i make fried rice and some chicken.. my frnd helps with the alcohol.. shots are gulped down..people are dancing to songs on gbedufiva and the guys are moving my tv and getting the movie stuff sorted out...
the ex comes in.. i give him a brief hug.. i'm glad you could make it... i notice he is wearing the jacket i got for him on his birthday..hmm..(dats wierd)
they all decided to watch a horror movie.. the unborn..you see i don't do horror movies.. so i kept my lil ass in the kitchen and was watching the chicken....he comes over and holds me...
"arent you watching the movie with us?"
"nah maen,... i dnt do horror movies and you know that, i'ld rather wait for the next movie,besides.. i gotta watch this shit on the fire"
is it just me or is the tingling feeling i get when im close to him gone?wierd... just wierd!!
hours later.. they play another movie this one i decided to watch.. he is trying to engage in small talk with me...i'm a bit tipsy from the caramel shots and punch so i'm not really concentrating on what he was saying...
2.30am : movie is over..i look around the sitting room...everyone's knocked out!!! thats what you get with a punch that has a whole bottle of bacardi rum in it..the ex taps his friend to wake up so they leave..
"can't you see he is drunk?? the guy had half a bottle of jack daniel!! let him sleep jo" i tell him
"no dnt worry!! i'ld drive he should wake up jo!! i want to go home" he replies
his raised voice wakes most ppl up.. and people start to leave in groups..ppl hopping into thier cars and leaving..
his friend wakes up.. cranky as hell... and is like ok lets go...
the ex is out the door when i quickly rmbr i still have some of his personal stuff i had packed with intentions of giving him back.. i tell him and i rush up the stairs..to get it.. and he follows me..
i hand him the bag and he sees the teddy bear.." why are you giving this to me?"
" cuz i dnt need them and i think its wrong for me to keep them.you should have them"
" i feel insulted, i wore this jacket to show you how cool we wer and stuff and now you are returning all my gifts?"
" its no big deal honestly, i just dnt feel right keeping them..our relationship was a lie.. mostly from your part.. and i dnt like to keep souvernieurs of that kinda stuff"
he looks at me intensely." all that stuff i said to you during our break up was wrong.. i just said them to hurt you like you hurt me.. i truly did love you.. i still do"
i look at him with a raised eyebrow ...trying to play it cool... im like " oh well..you should still take.." his friend yells "lets go now!!!! ive woken up and now u dnt want to go??!!"
i sigh.. i should'nt have allowed anyone drink :( " im talking to her give us a sec pls"he replies
" no ohh.. lets go now now" his frnd yells... i go downstairs to meet the friend " why are you shouting?? my housemates are sleeping naw!!!" i go outside and my ex comes to join us
his friend is in the car and i hug the ex... "thnx for coming i say"...in mid sentence he kisses me
i do not respond!!! i repeat!!! i did not respond!!!!
he was like.. we need to talk.. hops in the car and leaves....
i go inside.. sigh at the messy kitchen and living room... i'ld sort that tmw...
i go upstairs...he still left his stuff...!!! what is this guy up to i ask my self?... well... you wanna find out? thats for my next post!!! you would'nt believe what happened........
xoxo

From facebook freaks to..

I'm john By Name,Am Totally single and Looking..I was searching
Through Some Bunch of Profiles Suddenly I came Across Yours It Seems
Very Nice To Me..I was Intrigue when I read Your Profile..I Hope you
are doing Great Today and Your Day went as You have always
wished...I'm Open Minded,Caring,Respective,Easy... Read more
Going,Compassionate,Tender Loving,Affectionate ,Trust Worthy ,Honest
and God Fearing..Am looking forward to meet an Intelligent, Honest
,Caring ,Faithful , loving Affectionate, loyal and understanding
man..I would Like to Know more about you...You Can email me me at joe_clement71@yahoo.com

The randomness... yes... people like this do exist.. and they actually send msgs like this to ur inbox..all i need is a moment of ur time please...you might not know me now...but you will get to know me and all that random shit...
who here does spring cleaning on thier facebook?? u kno...sweeping out all them random profiles of ppl you rarely keep in touch with.. or those numerous spam ppl..party here(invite) party there...especially parties that are not in your vicinity..

This is a very random post..i kno i kno... im real hungry and instead of me to go cook im so effing lazy... i dnt feel like cooking at all....
im chatting with an oyinbo friend of mine ....lamenting my current situtation.. looks like he is coming over to take me for lunch.... :)
lets go to ye's sushi i say....im a vegitarian he replies...(oyinbo boiz get wahala sha)...il trying to convince him to just eat rice and peas... or maybe we should do indian...(back to msn)
ohh wells.. we are heading for a sub...i just wanta get out of the house really... im tired of doing homework!! haba!!...
oohhh he is on his way...adios blogsville...

....xoxo

From Montreal to Grand Bend beach!!!

i apologize for not updating my blog ... ive bin so busy... as vice president of the African students association in my school... Ive bin up to my ears with different stuff to take care of... we recently had an event at grand bend beach...it was awesome.. i still showed up even tho i was under the weather...
You wouldnt believe what happened... i had a terrible headache the day before... and i got Alabukun from a friend...yuh do u rmbr dat stuff? used for headaches back home in 9ja... well i tried it oohhh .. and i had a terrible reaction to it... my eyes got swollen and i looked like a piece of shit!! .. i was so concerned,..cuz i had the beach event to attend the next day at 8:30am...my frnds wer just laffin at me.. as i tried to rectify my situation.My housemate recommended benadryl for me which i took every four hours...did d swelling reduce? only small oohh... i had to use the last option..to wear shades throughout the event.. :(
the beach was nice... rocked a lovely bikini i got from shopping in Montreal the weekend before..but i couldn't really participate in the events cuz i felt real queasy and a bit nauseous...this left me feeling cranky half of the time we wer there :(
twas fun tho while it lasted..good times...good times...

ehen about Montreal!!!... i absolutely love that place... but if i go there to school i will fail like shege... parry every where mehnn... its was soo unreal... i didnt want to go back home... that kind of living i could get real used to u know...
We drove to Quebec..(with a couple of friends) a crazy 6hr drive... my ass was so hard from sitting down in d car mehn... and i got more excited as we got our first glimpse of the city... little European houses..ppl in bikes..french signs such as sortie...(stop) it was cute.. but the drivers in that city are crazy... they drive like danfo drivers back home....
we checked into our hotel... le saint malo... a tiny quaint looking hotel we found on hot wire..
the entrance was so nice and cute but when we got into our room it was like we wer thrown into a random hostel in 9ja...cracks in the wall, mildew on the shower curtains... i almost wept when i saw the place.. my frnds wer saying i shld calm down.. that im just being my usual diva self... but honestly the place was as crappy as shit!!! i don't have the pics here with me but im sure to collect them from my friend and upload later.... pinky swear!!
i called my pookie.. and he calmed me down... we headed out for dinner and when we got back...
sharp sharp we spoke to the concierge and carried our load to another hotel called the clarion.. which was way expensive but very worth it.... i didn't come to Montreal to sleep in a suffer suffer hotel oohhh!!!!
we went clubbing later that night at a club called altitude 737... it was awesome mehnn..its a nightclub located at the top floor in the highest building in Montreal.. the dj was awesome and amazing... the view was breathtaking....

yup dats the view .. crazy isn't it?..oohhh im so tired... ild update later...
xoxo

Cut my hair!!! whaz a weekend in toronto like?

Had an amazing weekend!!!!! hello blogs ville!!! i know ive been kinda M.I.A for a while but its summer yo... instead of moping around over lost loves...im out with my friends having amazing time....
I cut my hair!!!! yes... and im loving the new look... its mature and all... did it some where in scarborough.. i had to hold myself from crying..but im getting used to it...whaddaya think of it? do u prefer me with long or short hair??



yay or nay??

I enrolled in driving school with a friend of mine... apparently i have to this in order to get a discount in my insurance when i get a car!!! omg it was soooo tiring... spent 6 1/2 hours in class for four days straight!!!! it was crazy mehnnn...but it was worth it!!! had enough lessons, tests and videos and passed with a 98% ...now i can proceed to in car driving lessons.. i started yesterday.. it was crazy mehn..the guy came to my house and he like gives me the keys and says "drive" i look at him... is he mad? does he really want to die today???
i get behind the wheel.... as clueless as shit mayne.. he goes on to say.. "if you passed the in class tests as excellently as you did you should know what to do"... i continue staring at him blankly..
"this is different!!!! this is live and all... its easy to read and cram theory naw"....he ignores me and i have to use my initiative.. which i did... this guy told me to drive on a major road ooohh!!! i was sooo scared!!! whaaattttt!!!! at one point i begged him to teach me properly in a car lot... so we did that....afterward i got a bit more confident with the driving....im kinda looking forward to the next class :)
BTW, did u hear that maze is back??? na wahh ooo!!!! isnt he a pastor?? im still shocked!!...he even made a remix to drake's best i ever had... and im currently feeling his new song called get it featuring cam'ron... wonders shall never cease!!!!
This weekend was on point!!! went to Mississauga to meet my boo... we had an amazing dinner.. :) with friends of his.. it was really interesting... the next day was my friend's birthday... so i dragged my boo to the mall... poor guy.. he was tired as hell but he still followed me... we got gifts for my friend... at one point he was getting cranky... so we went home and had a lil nap...
woke up like 7pm...to his voice..he was talking on the phone... started getting ready...picked up the celebrant and we headed up to milestones downtown Toronto...was a real chill environment...everything was kinda kool...but something weird happened..i noticed my camera light was on from my bag...i brought it out wondering what made it come on..and behold there was a pic of the ex and i kissing...my boo saw it and kept his cool and handled it quite maturely...(praise tha lord) that was effin weird tho...geez!!! he had to leave cuz he had church the next day......after wards we went to circa nightclub!!!!! ladies and gentlemen!! i can now finally say ive been to circa and i must say it aint worth the hype!!! kini!!!!!! ahan... the crowd was just toooo weird!!! and there were too many over eager men trying to buy me drinks!!!! and i got defensive... dnt want to be a victim of the date rape drug ehh......
Lol there was even a very funny incident wen a guy my frnd was dancing with farted!!! that was jokes mehnn!!!! that wen i knew it was time to go home !!!
I had the keys to my boo's apt cuz he was going to crash at his friends( he is such a sweet guy gosh) so i chilled with friends listened to music..they were watching soprano's and i went to crash!!! the next day we had breakfast,then we went to playdium..went on a bungee trampoline..and then go karting!!! it was mad fun whaaaattttt!!!!!!!!!!!!!

...dinner at moxies after wards..then went home to the loo.....my body is still paining me from the bungee sturves...mehnn... even more excited now cuz im goint to montreal for the weekend... that promises to be mad fun!!! :)
yes i must do everything...from shopping to clubbing and hitting the strip clubs....yes oohhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So here's the video of me on the bungee trampoline :)

Act like a lady,Think like a man

So yuhhh... its bin say what...3 weeks now...
and i must say in the space of that time i have bin constantly misreable...
Seriously from crying at night to sleeping at 3am everyday...
I feel so bitter and used.. i swear.. my life looks bleak everyday... and if not for my friends i dnt know what i would have done to myself..
It even got to the point that i wanted to get satisfaction from inflicting pain on my self...Lord is this what it has come to??
He calls n he is like lets b friends and all.. i agree.. the malice was too much to bear for me..
so yuh he calls me n we talk and its all cool..He tells me he went to see transformers with a "friend" ... in my mind i know who this "friend" is...
duhh im not stupid.. while we wer dating i noticed the way he avoided her calls and txt msgs when we wer together... i friggin brought it up and told him that i noticed it.. and he denied it.. as always...
ok so lets be cool with each other abi... sure.. ild be a big girl and do that...
was off to the mall... to go get acetone nail remover from zellers... cuz i had toremove my falsies...(after one nail broke during an intense game of bowling a week before... it was so hilarious mehn... i rolled the ball and my nail went with it!!! classic lol)
I get down from the bus with my girlfriend and we run into him...
like seriously this town is too small for the both of us..
he comes over and greets us... then hugs me... i feel very akward...this is me trying to get a hold of my life and i run into u..like really...
My friend points out to him that his bus is here... he says he would catch d nxt one...
Again i feel real akwarad... long time he says... all i can do is nod..
Thank God for my friend's presence, she started talking about other stuff... i start getting a hold of myself and i actually talked to him...
i commend his new earfones... noise cancelling..ive always wanted to get them and he beat me to it... i rmbr wen he came over to my house and showed them to me...as i used them the whole day...i loved them...he promised to give me his old ones...the ones we saw wen we went shopping together..at this same mall !!!! lawd!!!!!
so im like "where are my earfones?"and i playfully punch him... Apparently he gave them to his friend to give me... i found this suprising bcos i didnt expect him to do that..even now that we have broken up..i smile and tell him i appreciate it...
i notice he wants to talk longer..but i told him we have to go...i hurriedly rush into the mall...
My friend and i jist together...about how odd and akward that meeting was...
and i still know deep down... damn i love this guy..
Im telling my friend how i would drop my pride and tell him we should work things out... and she gives me this book...Act like a lady,think like a man by steve harvey...
Its a real eye opener about relationships.. ild advice every girl to read it... dats all i can say...intresting from start to finish...read it in 2 days... i never wanted to drop it...
From reading that book,i stop being bitter about my situation...and come to realise that he actually cared bout me... he is just young and confused.. and it was the right thing i did.. also... i shldnt beg for anything.. if he is meant to be mine..we shall be back again... if not i should move on and stop crying over spilt milk....
i call him days after... hey whats up.. lets go see the taking of pelham 123..today.. u kno to clear the akwardness between us.... he is like uhh..he has to meet up with a friend...
and then the realization hits...ever so hard... this guy really doesnt give a damn about me sha...he is like he would call me later..so we could go.. i tell him not to worry.. ild find some one else...
I made a solem promise..never to call him again... or talk to him for six months... until im truly over this matter..
so i head on to school ooo... the usual,assignments then a meeting.. after the meeting tboi n i decide to go n eat...
i suggest my fave indian resturant on campus and we head on there...at the resturant we meet up with my girl...the one who gave me the book to read..
so we head inside... i order my usual and we are eating and jisting with loud voices...
And through the doors he walks in... yup.. and this time with the "friend" oohh yes i recognise her... ive facebook stalked his profile for 2weeks... so i knew it was her..
They both stroll inside and this is me thinking!!! how dare he?? bringing that uglyass bitch to my favorite resturant... he fucking knows its my favorite resturant! i friggin introduced him to this place!!!!!!!!!!!!! how could he???!!!!!
My friend grabs my hand and squeezes it...i have to be calm about this..
He walks over and greets us..and tries to hug me..but i reject him instead i bring out my hand for a shake..(akward moment part 2)
i continue the convo i had with my friends and then that little mouse aka "the friend" says "hi,my name is esther and im ghanian"... in my mind im like so fucking what?? u are ghanian so we must talk to u?? bitch please abegi commot make we hear word...
so they go and eat...i guess the atmosphere was too hot for them cuz they ordered take out...
My friend tries to confort me about how he is one useless undergrad student and how they are in the rain together..lol
and how i have a working class guy on my case who cares about me n had a faboulous thing going on for him..
Ive lost my appetite and i order my basmati rice and tandori chicken to be packed for me...
I NEED TO GET A FUCKING GRIP ON MYSELF AND MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!!
i go over to meet my friend/new guy... he has always been there for me...gosh...
he picks me from the train station and gives me a kiss and hugs me tightly... i feel so loved...
We get to his place and he has noticed ive lost weight..i havent smiled in weeks and now i smile because of him...
he dedicates a song to me...one time by charlie wilson ...i understand the lyrics.. he knows im stuck on the ex..and he wants to show me..how to feel love and be love in return..and i fall asleep in his arms...he is heaven sent..just what i need right now...



ps: any one who wants the book.. i have the ebook version..can can mail it to you.. :)
xoxo

Transformers!!! (yawn!!!) new vid by Tinu-wild thing

So i eventually went to see transformers with friends of mine...
i believe the movie was over hyped!! it started at 10;40pm and it was 1am and we wer still watching it!!! haba... the movie was too long jo...yes i developed a liking for bumble bee...(so cute) and optimus prime... the cars in the movie wer sick, i.e when the auto bots wer in disguise... the twins constant insults at each other created much needed humor for the movie... in the beginning the fights wer amazing and kind of got me intrigued... then an hour into the movie, the fighting scenes kinda got boring for me...so boring that i started looking for stuff to distract myself like how cute bumblebee was...


gosh he was so cute and funny especially because he couldn't talk and had to use his radio to communicate.. i also liked the car he turns into.. odikwa sexy sturvings mehnn...



optimus prime... aka oga pata pata... and his bado image.. commanding the other robots and all... doesn't his voice seem like that of Earl Jones? or was it just me??



Is it me or did Meagan fox's lips look fuller like she had work done?? Her character was so forgettable and insignificant... but i guess they have to put a sexy
babe to complete the movie.. all i rmbr is her lips and... uh... her lips....lol

as usual, i snooped around youtube and found another video... lol...ermm..be inspired...